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Andrea,
I totally feel you. My diamond and I were very close. But unfortunately she went alum in the spring of 1998 (when I was initiated) and then I transferred out of U of A. In the last 6 years I have probably only spoken to her six times. I hate it. I never got to take a little, so I feel extremely bummed that I can't talk to my diamond.
I understand that when you graduate college things change and people tend to grow apart, maybe I'm just selfish when I say that I somewhat expected my diamond to actually want to contact me every so often. But unfortunately I think it goes back to her. I hate to say this, but it is so true, some girls really only think of a sorority as a 'college' thing.
I mean think about, in Arizona we probably have 300 to 400 inititiated members (collegians and alumnae) that live in the state. The Phoenix Alumnae association probably only has 50 active members. That seems really pathetic in the grand scheme of things.
I love my diamond, but I truly thing she is one of those people where sorority life was for college and not beyond.
This might sound like a crazy idea, but what about the idea of 'adopting' other sisters as diamonds? Sisters on this board.
Well there is my two cents.
Brianna
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