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Originally posted by AlphaFrog
We are getting married in April (been planned for awhile, this is not a shotgun thing)
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I realize that you didn't ask this question, but I am going to offer an unsolicited piece of advice anyway.
Please... for the sake of your child, go to the local JP and get married.
NOW... not in April. Go get the license Monday and get married immediately.
If you inisist on doing some kind of ceremony for family in April, then fine, have the party. That's not what is important. What is important is what you look your child in the eye and tell her about how you lived your life when they are old enough to take Biology 101 and count to 9.
Please don't put off making a true commitment to each other and establishing a home for your child for the sake of a party.
Patti