I wanted to add that when my husband came home, I posed this question to him.
He DEMONSTRATIVELY said that he would have wanted to know immediately! And, he said that if I had handed him a card that said Happy V-Day Daddy I would been picking him up off of the floor. He said break it to him gently unless you two were absolutely trying to get pregnant.
Just thought you might want a guy who's been through this before's opinion.
But, do what you feel is best for the two, no, three of you's interests!
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Welcome to GreekChat. Sorry so few of us are willing to blow rainbows up your ass. --agzg
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