Honestly I have no clue about how they do rush these days--anything I do remember from back when would probably be inaccurate now anyway. I think that HotDamnImaPhiMu is right--it is probably best to stay out of the whole situation & just let her personality speak for itself. Like I said, it would be great to have another leg in the family--but first and foremost I just want her to be happy--I'm sure in the end she'll make the decision that's right for her. It's so easy to forget that she's a college-aged woman now--sometimes it seems like yesterday when we were still playing dress-up with all our mom's clothes and make-up
