Hey--I just have a quick question & am looking for any & all opinions. First, a little background--My sister will be rushing in the fall. My other sisters and I (who are quite a bit older) all ended up joining the same sorority, XYZ, while in school. Although I think it would be great if the youngest sis pledged XYZ , all I really want for her is to make the right decision for HER--even if it means joining a different sorority. In other words, we are not pressuring her at all to join the same sorority we did.
OK so now to the question part--do you think that other sororities on that campus will just assume that my sis will join the sorority she is a leg to, and cut her for that reason? Any sorority would be very happy to have her--I just don't want anyone who is rushing her to possibly overlook her because they assume she will pledge as a legacy elsewhere. I am wondering if I should maybe even send a note to the chapters to address this issue. Of course, I wouldn't want to do anything that might end up actually hurting her during rush--like I said I just want her to have a positive rush experience like I did. What can I say...I guess I'm just an overprotective big sis
Well, any responses are definitely welcome! Thanks in advance for the advice.