In my chapter, they find out who their big is at pledging pinning. They then get a secret sister who usually is their grand big but if their grand big is alumnae, someone else in the chapter takes over or someone else in that family tree does. Secrets leave the new members gifts each week with clues and at initiation the new members have to figure out who their secret is. Secrets like to trick the new members lol...its fun! In all, it works out good!
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