One thing I have learned: Don't go to bars/clubs looking to find someone who wants a relationship. The majority of guys there are just looking to have fun or get a piece of a$$. I go out to have a good time, but I really have no interest in dating anyone I meet in a nightclub, ESPECIALLY if I am inebriated at the time
This obviously won't be a problem for you since you apparently work with all or mostly women, but be very careful about dating anyone you work with. That can get tricky.
Have you ever asked any of your friends to set you up? They know you well, know your interests well, and might be able to recommend a nice boy that matches your personality and interestes
Good luck!!