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Originally posted by CodeBlue_R3
But I really am feeling the married guy-what should I do?
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So you can acknowledge that the ex messed up and treated you wrong, however you have no problems feeling the married guy who lied to you for nine months? Maybe it's just me, but if I invest my time into a man, I'm going to be hella pissed when I find out he's been playing with my emotions.
I can sympathize with you being sad that someone you cared about lied to you. I cannot sympathize with you for continuing to stay with someone who never respected you from the get or for having thoughts of entertaining the loser from the past.
PSA: As much as we like to blame men for how they act, they can only do what we allow them to get away with. So, LADIES PLEASE STOP BEING PRESSED OVER LOSERS. You’ll save yourself time, energy, and feelings that could be spent on a man who’s worth it. You’ll help him realize some women will not stand for his chit and possibly save the next woman from dealing with the same thing. Finally, you’ll spare your friends and family all the drama of “guess what he did now”. Thanks!