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Originally posted by CodeBlue_R3
I found out my boyfriend is married, which would make me his mistress. I've been dating this dude for nine months so what he had is pretty strong. He's supposed to be getting a divorce, but you never know how that page is going to turn. She is supposed to come back to live with him at the beginning of March since we just found out her mother is dying. He was going to file for divorce then, but now it would be bad timing.
At the same time one of the guys I was dating is back in the country, he's a soldier. He messed up and treated me wrong saying I was smuggling him and whatnot, but we just got off the phone and now he wants to hook back up. But I really am feeling the married guy-what should I do?
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i cosign with everyone's comments thus far. in addition, whatever you decide, konw that your lover may use his mother-in-law's health as an excuse to stay with his wife.
as far as the other dude, puleaze! if he claims you were so bad to him then why is he calling?
please don't continue to be a tool for these emotionally incompetant men.