Ladies,
I just wanted to add that I didn't post the link for us to commiserate (sp?) but to alert you to one other resource that is available for us to check up on men that we may be interested in. There are a few men on there that women have said have actually attempted to date them or date their friends, and as it turns out, the men were gay or bisexual.
So my purpose was to not bring us down but to empower us with one other resource, if we choose to use it. The ultimate resource of course, will be turning to our Higher Power to gain clarity and discernment about who we are dealing with.
Have a good one!