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Originally posted by btb87
Everybody is right on point with their advice. But here's more.
You also need to stay away from GI Joe as well. If you want to get back with him at a later date, (after cutting ties with Mr. Marriedman) then so be it, but right now, you need to take some time for yourself. Even if you were to get involved with GI Joe again, do you have evidence that he's changed? In other words, how do you know he won't get tired of you smothering him again?
Now, you've been involved with Mr. Marriedman for nearly a year but have been dealt a horrible blow. It takes time to recover from that. I don't agree with the belief that the best way to get over one man is to get involved with another. Also, don't wait around for him to get a divorce. Just because they weren't living together, they're still MARRIED. If the marriage was that bad, he would have been trying like the dickens to get divorced before now, even if it would have cost him an arm and a leg.
And btw. . .do something nice for YOURSELF.
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DEFINITELY. . . you need time to yourself. But do not take the time to wallow in your hurt. Give yourself time to grieve. Recognize the lesson. You have to have a TEST to produce the
TESTimony.
Realize that God is the only one who can comfort you and restore you. Allow him to comfort you. Seek His will and be obedient to his voice.
It pains me to see any woman go through this, but you had to go through this so that others could be blessed from your testimony.