To those who read the Waiting PATIENTLY for YOUR Life Mate excerpt, I found out who the author is. There is a book called
If Men Are Like Buses, then how do I catch one by Michelle McKinney Hammond. Her chapter titled, "Checking Out the Scenery" is where the above points are taken from. I started the book late Friday night and finished it last night.

The book blessed me. I am actually mad that I bought 2 other books and not this one, but I pray that God has something in those 2 books for me as well.
The book is a very quick read but it is spiritually enlightening without being preachy to me. I want to thank MzSportsLuva for recommending it some years back. It wasn't until my bus had some engine problems that I felt spirit lead to read it. If I had the money, I would buy it for some folks, Amazon has it for $10.

I think I will buy it and re read it as well as the Biblical stories that she used as examples.