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I personally could give a crap about a guy's number, but I hesitate to give him mine. I'm ok with it, and it isn't particularly high at all, but there are a whole lot of people who feel that like 3+ is a bit much. So I prefer not to reveal such info until I know that he would be comfy handling the truth. I think that lying about it somehow makes me feel (not that everyone should feel like this, but this is how I feel) that it's something to be ashamed of, and it absolutely isn't. Most people have learned alot- sexually and emotionally- from their past experiences, and if they've been safe and have been tested recently, it's all good.
I read an article in Glamour where a guy said the best number for a girl was 7:
1 guy she lost her virginity to
2 commited relationships
2 one night stands
2 mistakes
Interesting huh?
Personally I think the following quote is very apt for many people and situations, I heard it on Queer as Folk: "Promiscuous is anyone who's having more sex than you"
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