Can we say down low brothas!

Why are the majority of the ones I looked at (mostly southern states) are "homo-thugs" to the utmost!. Many ads even said "I am a DL brotha".
Most of them are nice looking brothas, educated and er'thang!

Not to be stereotypical, but many of these men looked "manly", not feminine.
Who the heck is left for black women to marry !?!?!?