[ISUKappa]

Kind of late, but I'll chime in. Theoretically, numbers shouldn't matter. As long as they were being safe. I respect those who have decided to wait or have few partners and I don't think poorly of those who are in the double--and maybe even triple--digits. It's up to you to figure out what you're comfortable with.

In women especially, numbers aren't always indicative of that person being a nymphomaniac or a slut. There could be many other factors working that we aren't privy to. She could have self-esteem issues, a bad "reaction" to a sexual assault, psychological isses or a host of any other personal issues that made her (or him) react differently in sexual situations.

I don't know my husband's number, nor does he know mine. He does know that some things happened while I was in college that affected me and how I related to guys where sex was concerned. He still loves me, and that's all I need.