Keep in mind that diagnosis is a matter of categorizing a group of symtpoms or behaviors.
It doesn't necessarily denote an organic source. Also, you don't have to be defind by the conditon, depending on what it is of course.
Personally I just don't enjoy people that victimize others with their poor emotional control.
I don't care if thats from a bad day, lack of sleep, lack of food, over sensitivity, or immaturity. Nor do I care if its from a diagnosed mental illness.
I don't baby sit other adults, nor do I like fixer-upper people.
I am adversarial enough in my outside existance, business, school, etc. I rely on my friends, acquaintances and lovers to be a positive influence on my mood and experiences.
So if you are basically unpleasant, I am going to provide you limited access to my emotional well-being.
Y'all realize that your lover has enormous influence over how you feel about life in general? KEep that in mind if you allow people with malfunctioning social skills a lot of access to your life, regardless of the source.
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Originally posted by dzjessdz
"Mental disorders are common in the United States and internationally. An estimated 22.1 percent of Americans ages 18 and older—about 1 in 5 adults—suffer from a diagnosable mental disorder in a given year.
When applied to the 1998 U.S. Census residential population estimate, this figure translates to 44.3 million people.
In addition, 4 of the 10 leading causes of disability in the U.S. and other developed countries are mental disorders-major depression, bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, and obsessive-compulsive disorder.
Many people suffer from more than one mental disorder at a given time."
http://www.nimh.nih.gov/publicat/numbers.cfm
I'm not trying to be flamey or anything, and while i'm not offended, or upset with any one poster, I find myself bugged in general by this thread. I'm not sure why, maybe it's because I'm feeling stigmatized because i'm a member of this mentally ill group that's being discussed in a way that makes me feel labeled, like people could be defined by their disorders and not who they are? i don't know.
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