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Ditto what justamom said....
As long as your sorority doesn't stoop to that level, stays visible and positive on campus, and don't overreact to all of this, it should work itself out. If they're talking this much smack to outsiders, chances are they are self destructing on the inside (or will soon). They'll figure out their tactics aren't working, then start getting mad at each other and splitting themselves up (if they haven't already).
Don't know what to tell you about the Greek standards board...we never had one on our campus. Do you think it will make things worse by using that resource? Or what about a private talk with the greek adviser? I'm sure others (including the GA) have noticed this behavior or heard the chatter. Maybe the GA can give you some insight as to why this group is doing this. I'm not saying your sorority is at fault but sometimes we do things that are misinterpreted by others and we have no clue what we're doing. The GA may know something you don't. It doesn't hurt to ask. And if the GA says "Well, you guys do this, and it's really a problem" then you can discuss that with the group and figure out if you want to change it or forget about it. People have to do that all of the time in order to grow and become better people.
Good luck. I know I've been on the receiving end of this crap and it doesn't feel good.
PsychTau
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