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I think an important thing to note, esp. at schools w/small greek systems is that everyone knows somebody who knows somebody. We all do enough together and hang around enough of the same people that you may think that the word isnt getting out, but it always does. It would be like if you were from a small town, word gets out. Also, and I am NOT saying this is a regular thing at all, but I know for a fact some chapters of fraternities have talked about who they have slept w/at meeting or have even had files on girls about who they had slept w/in the chapter and what they were like. Now think about all those people who may tell someone else, then who they would tell, etc.....
I'm not saying to not have fun, but you just have to be careful and realize that the word might get out. Thats the EXACT reason why we dont wear our letters when we go out on the town!!
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