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Ok, I'm borrowing some things from the "3 DealBreakers" thread here...
-Excessive tardiness
-Being rude, pessimistic, negative to others
-Has no sense of humor
-Does not retain his heritage/ethnicity (at least have some idea of your roots)
-if we just don't click at all
-leaving the cell phone on alert mode (unless ur on call) during the date AND if left on silent mode, you check the cell constantly for any missed calls or voice mail while we're still on the date
1) has more hair on his back than on his head
2) is skinnier than me
3) has issues- ex: ex-girlfriend he can't forget, 5 kids, drug user...freaks out after sex
refuses to shave or wax body hair
1. Poor (Wears Mudd jeans or another such variant).
2. Stupid (Can't understand Kant or do multi-variable calc).
3. Ugly (Doesn't look like Paris Hilton).
Then there were extensive discussions in another thread about not wanting to date someone who has a child.
Then we ask the question about mental illness... you could even ask it about a chronic medical illness too.. compared to some of the above, it's a more serious issue. Some people's dealbreakers are pretty mild things, some are more serious. The thing is, everybody has different things that they can tolerate and live with.
Knowing what you personally are capable of coping with is an important skill in life.
Dee
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