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I am not going to preach, I am just going to be practical.
If you feel yourself having feelings, returned or not, towards someone already taken, its important to recognize that and make a decision.
If you are willing to pursue a relationship with him . . well you keep hanging with him. And you might as well do everything in your power to win.
If you don't. If you think its wrong or too much trouble. Your best bet is to run away and sever ALL contact for some time. Until you get over it.
Unless you are one of those people that like the torturous drama of unrequited love. blah. Thats a nasty evil, hurtful place to be, because you are neither coming nor going, merely trapped in a perpetual state of frustrated hope and unhappiness. A place where your emotional well-being is in the hands of someone else because you can't leave and don't want to pursue.
OH, if you have trouble severing contact for a period of time, thats telling you something right there.
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