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Old 02-01-2004, 03:24 PM
Munchkin03 Munchkin03 is offline
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Watch Munchkin play Devil's Advocate...

What everyone said is true. Sometimes getting more involved or moving into the house can change your perceptions about your sisters. It can be an excellent growing experience.

But, we always talk about those for whom Greek Life isn't the Best Life. Most women and men are lucky enough to realize that early, or when they're going through Recruitment or while pledging. Well, what about those who realize that they shouldn't be in a GLO after they're initiated? What if they're having drama within their chapter that's negatively impacting their lives outside of the sorority? What if there is something at a higher level with which she/he fundamentally doesn't agree? What if one's unhappiness can be traced to their Greek organization membership?

Being in a sorority isn't always chocolate and roses. But, if it is seriously making you so unhappy and every effort at reconciliation and improving the situation has been attempted and has failed, I seriously don't see anything wrong with getting out of it. Being in a sorority is a lifetime commitment, but, should you stay in an unhealthy sorority relationship because it's a lifetime commitment? No.
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