[opaldragon]

I purposefully made the post vague so it would remain objective and people would give their points of view.
However, since clarification was asked for, I'll elaborate. I was upset because I found it rather shady that I had to be informed of and invited to a party a sister of mine hosted by someone outside the chapter. Particularly in the situation where the overwhelmingly majority of people in attendance all know me and like me, and then I was later questioned as to why I was not there. Rather than say "I was not invited because of a sister's fucking shady behavior", I used the "I wasn't feeling well, and I'm out of the loop" excuse. With this situation, I didn't feel sisterhood, but there was no need to rag on my sister to this person; I respect her. To summarize, I felt slighted and disrespected by some sisters and found it fucking shady that there was no invite.
Given that situation was a few months ago and pretty much dead and buried, but I'm still curioous as to what people would do in a similar situation.