[honeychile]

Granted, there are different ways of handling this, but the way I've seen that's the most effective is to immediately (as in, this should have happened 5 minutes after the original insult), the sorority leaves, and a letter stating that, when a brother of ABC insults a sister of XYZ, the entire chapter is insulted, and the sisters expect an immediate apology. Maybe it was my school, but that was standard operating procedure. If an apology wasn't received within 2 days, a second letter was written, with a copy sent to the Executive Office.

Needless to say, I think the time has passed in this particular case, but when everyone realizes the gravity of ONE brother insulting ONE sister, it makes for a much kinder and respectful greek system.