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Originally posted by lovelyivy84
Why would you want to start something with someone that you feel might be gay? Even if he answers 'no', he might not be ready to admit it to you or anyone else.
I say go with your gut.
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Soror I'm not saying that I think that he's gay. I can't go into details but if I thought that he was gay or bi, I wouldn't deal at all. I guess that that's the whole problem - none of us know for sure - we don't even know that they are telling the truth. Do you have any tips on how to ask this question w/out totally turning the man off? At some point, I'd probably want to run this question past most any man that I'm involved with, just to get any assurance that I can. We all know that the homothugs don't show any tell-tale "signs" - which is scary. Our best bet might be to simply ask.
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