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Old 01-29-2004, 03:44 PM
SummerChild SummerChild is offline
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Ladies,
I guess that I should answer my own question.

I would respect a man that wants to maintain an abstinent lifestyle and try to work with him to the best of my ability. I think that *physically* I could go without and seek other avenues of intimacy.

However, I don't know how happy I would be with this sort of relationship b/c I believe that sex can be a deeply emotional and bonding experience. I think that I'd want to have that experience and bond with him on that very deep level before I marry him. I wonder if I could feel close enough to a man to marry him if I have never had sex with him and therefore never had that deep experience of bonding with him in that intimate way that (to my knowledge) only sex brings.

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