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That is CHEATING. That is emotional and physical infidelity and it is wrong on every level.
On the original question: I think that you should always take yourself out of this situation. I do my best to make sure that I am friendly with all of my guy friends girlfriends. Anything else is an insult to the relationship. If I started to catch a feeling I would make myself scarce, because no one should voluntarily put themself in that position.
I deserve waaay better.
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It may be said with rough accuracy that there are three stages in the life of a strong people. First, it is a small power, and fights small powers. Then it is a great power, and fights great powers. Then it is a great power, and fights small powers, but pretends that they are great powers, in order to rekindle the ashes of its ancient emotion and vanity.-- G.K. Chesterton
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