As far as not getting to know every group...
During formal recruitment, you often only get to meet 1-3 girls per chapter before making your first round of decisions. In a lot of cases, you aren't really getting a feel for the house unless you return for later rounds. The only houses you will really be deciding from for membership will be the 2-3 houses where you attend prefs. Even those of us who went through formal rush wonder sometimes...did I cut XYZ too early?
If you go to COB events, and you find a chapter where you are happy, go for it, and never look back!
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