eeeeeeeeeeeasy there kids.... take 'er eaaaaaaaaaaaasy.
don't be bitter, use your drive to change things in a positive way. like, donate to the foundation or to the fraternity - i posted the links on here already. I try to donate $25 to each per month. $50 bucks a month in the great scheme of my life is not that much, but if we all donate a little a month, it will add up to big things and help CO move things along!!
or volunteer - you can fill out the form online and the volunteer coordinator gets back to you almost immediately.
jess, i know you're sad about the chapter consultant thing but there are a lot of other ways you can help out!! and when you come to DC, me and you HAVE to meet up, because I work like 10 minutes away from where you're working - and then we can go to alumnae meetings together!! (because i'm too much of a baby to go alone

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please trust me when I say that they're working on it, but the only way you can bring big changes to the group is by being positive and supporting the organization in a POSITIVE way!!