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Originally posted by Sister Havana
Why do males over 30 still do this?
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Guys AND girls do this. It doesn't have anything to do with being male or female, or how old they are. Some people are just a**holes, period. My brother, who is a certified card-carrying Nice Guy, just got played HARD by this girl a couple weeks ago. I'm about ready to drive up there and throttle her.
A year or so ago I got sick of worrying about the whole oh-does-he-like-me-why-won't-he-call-boo-hoo-hoo routine. They said something like this on Sex and the City once: sometimes he just doesn't like you that much. If a guy is going to act like that, then he is NOT worth your time. Period. There is nothing you can do to change the situation either.
The best part is, once you stop worrying about it, it really does seem to happen less. Lowering your standards and letting people treat you that way just dooms you to having it happen over and over again.
Now repeat after me: "If that guy/girl I like is treating me badly or playing games with my head, then F**K THEM! I will not allow destructive people in my life! I will move on and find someone new!"
Liberating, ain't it?
