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Originally posted by 33girl
On the same campus or a different campus? If she's transferring and will probably not be in contact with her NPC anymore that's one thing. But if she wants to quit, after being an active sister, and join another social sorority (local, national, regional, whatever) on her same campus that's another story. Not cool.
As to being able to quit one NPC and join another -
I think one of the reasons we have this rule and NIC doesn't is the same reason we have tons of rush rules and NIC doesn't. One of the tenets of NPC is to look out for other NPC groups and help each other. (In theory, anyway.)
I sympathize with people who have been hazed and people in the transfer situation...I just feel that it's a slippery slope. Not everyone has good intentions and there would be people pulling isht on their chapters like "well, they hazed me, I want to join another group" when it's not true, and people transferring solely to switch sororities (I can especially see this happening in the South).
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That's why I think, if it were to be allowed, there would have to be restrictions and a process. Also-it would have to be known to the second organization. They'd have to take it into consideration and make their own decision. It sould still be a mutual selection process. Some chapters may decide yes, some may decide no. I think its about choice. There should be rules-yes. But there should be appeals processes and exceptions with limitations in almost every situation. Just MO.