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Originally posted by wbcm
Hey thanks everybody for responding, i was generally wondering where you all would put your loyality, more so than the npc rules. she was thinking of leaving npc to join a local sorority so the rules would not have applied to her. i was just hoping if anybody had gone through a similar situation if they could share it.
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On the same campus or a different campus? If she's transferring and will probably not be in contact with her NPC anymore that's one thing. But if she wants to quit, after being an active sister, and join another social sorority (local, national, regional, whatever) on her same campus that's another story. Not cool.
As to being able to quit one NPC and join another -
I think one of the reasons we have this rule and NIC doesn't is the same reason we have tons of rush rules and NIC doesn't. One of the tenets of NPC is to look out for other NPC groups and help each other. (In theory, anyway.)
I sympathize with people who have been hazed and people in the transfer situation...I just feel that it's a slippery slope. Not everyone has good intentions and there would be people pulling isht on their chapters like "well, they hazed me, I want to join another group" when it's not true, and people transferring solely to switch sororities (I can especially see this happening in the South).