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Some clarifications
I am not the one contemplating an affair. I deal with an 18 year old drop out, who at the time really ticked me off because those are the words she said to me when I asked her why did she ditch a job interview I had set up for her. She would rather follow this fool around. What makes it so bad is I think she's serious. I have tried on several occasions to see that that's not the way to go but she says I'm wrong. I wanted her to see that I was not the only one who thought she was wrong. I felt you guys here would give it to her straight, and you do not know her so she could not say we were just on her case. When I came on to clarify this, the site was down.
You know I would never cause drama, but I am at my wit's end as to how to get through to her. NO one in her family has graduated and they all had a child by the age of 16. Thankfully she doesn't. Everyone else has given up on her, but I do not want to. I will not. A lot of you said you would pray for me, but I ask that you pray for her. I hope she sees her errors and try her best to change them before it's too late.
I know a lot of you were probably saying Vanda is a dumb fill in the blank. That's not the case at all. I went through being the one cheated on and it's not a great feeling so I could not in good conscious hurt someone else. I have also seen it hurt very dear family members. Besides I am happy with who I have and I'm not about to mess up a good thing.
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