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Hmmm. I don't see much wrong with the "I'm only here for you and XYZ" comment. She probably just wanted to make her interest known. That, and the fact that she's known to have friends in XYZ -- she probably wanted to make sure you guys knew that she wasn't only interested in XYZ.
As for what she said to your sister who's the VP of recruitment...well, she's her friend. I wouldn't worry about what she said to her unless the friend has a big problem with it, too. And having someone around who has good ideas and isn't afraid to share them could be a good thing!
"And the truth of the matter is that neither us nor XYZ really want to give her a bid in the first place."
If y'all don't like her, don't give her a bid, plain and simple. Don't worry about whether or not XYZ is going to bid her, think about how this girl would fit in in your chapter and with the girls in it. But, you say she's friends with some of your sisters: obviously she fits in with them. Would she get along well with the rest of you? I'm sure her friends would like to have her in the chapter; would the rest of you not mind having her around? Think about that, versus how disappointed her friends in the chapter would be if this girl wasn't offered a bid.
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