First of all, I wouldn't be spending a lot of time with a married man in a social context. I feel very strongly about this. I despise it when men/women date someone that they know is married. I highly value the institution of marriage, and would therefore never put myself in the situation where I could develop feelings for a married man. But if I did....It the thought of what goes around comes around would be enough to slap me back into reality.
I had a friend that "dated" a guy that was married, and she rationalized it saying that HE was cheating on his wife...SHE wasn't doing anything wrong. She liked the fact that he didnt sweat her because he had obligations, and she liked the fact that she could call him when SHE wanted "some." Its sad, but I know more and more women who ONLY date married men or men in relationships for these reasons...
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