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I am celibate and in a long term relationship, so therefore my man is celibate too (lemme find out he's not, y'all will see me on the news). Anyway, speaking as someone with experience, I can atest to the fact that celibacy is not easy, for either partner in a relationship. If you think that a man's reasons for celibacy are "suspect," you will be able to either confirm or deny that belief soon into the relationship. If you have been together for two years and he hasn't had a hard time restraining himself, at least once, that probably means that he doesn't want you like that in the first place. If you have been together for two years and you have had to remind him, and yourself, why you chose celibacy, then he probably is not on the DL.
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