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Originally posted by Choo-ChooAKA
TO ALL: I would like to know how many of you ACTUALLY KNOW a man who has voluntarily committed himself to celibacy until marriage (not relationship, but MARRIAGE. I can understand why a person would want to be in a committed relationship before having sex).
If you do know a man who has taken this vow of chastity and has adhered to it for more than 1 year, tell me, what is he like?
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Honestly, and this actually discourages me when I think about it, but I don't know many brothas that are abstaining. Even the ones that I know that are in church/on the choir, etc...are still trying to get up in somebody's draws. The ones that (from what I know of them) ARE seemingly abstinent are umm...less than desirable anyway. These days, I find it hard, VERY hard to come across a man who says that he will be completely abstinent. I know several brothas that will WAIT for you, for a established amount of time, but not many that will stay with you for an indefinite amount of time without sex when you are NOT moving toward the prospect (i.e. marriage) of such.