12dn94dst,
I do believe that Violets is where I first encountered the article last summer. When I first encountered SF Korkscru's post, I said this sounds familiar.
Ladies this just shows you that 12dn94dst and I are on the internet way too much and get a lot of e-mail.
On the article, a lot of the events in the article struck deep within me and made me fearful for my brother and every other BLACK male in my life.