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Originally posted by delph998
Sorry ladies, but I beg the differ. I think you can truly love someone and cheat. I'm not condoning that behavior, but people do it all the time.
There are men and women who are madly in love with their spouses but are struggling in their marriage. Due to loneliness, they sleep with someone else. Or there are men and women who aren't intimate with their spouses and find someone else to be intimate with.
Again I say that I don't condone this behavior, but I think it's very common. I know that I'm gonna get it now.
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My thing is if someone can communicate such strong words as "I love you" and carry on in that way, they should be able to communicate "hey I'm having some problems with our relationship".
Get counseling and exhaust all other options. Work to make things better with the one you "love" instead of taking the easy road out. If things still aren't working then separate and move on. Sometimes the one you "love" isn't the one you are supposed to be with, so why cause unnecessary pain because you want to be selfish? Being selfish is not a part of truly loving someone and cheating is a selfish act IMO.