This question wouldn't apply to me any more, but waaay back when it did...
NO. There are too many men out there trying to "pass" (gay but in denial) with girlfriends or fiancees on their arms. My mind would automatically run to, "he's hiding something." He would be suspect - especially if the celibate thing was his idea. If he was respecting my wishes, that would be a different story. Double-standard? Maybe, but that's life.
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