First let me say that I don't disagree with anyone on here who believes in a process. I don't know how anyone can trully learn everything that they have to in a class room or on one weekend, or whatever. You need a process that will help to build that bond that is formed between those who have struggled together.
But what I have a real problem with, is people who shun other members becuase of how they were made. Yeah, there are some that walk in, simply to wear a T-Shirt, but somone who pledged in and wears simply wears a T-Shirt is just as bad in my opinion.
I think that we need to move the debate from how you got in, to what the hell you are doing now. If you have luv for your frat or soror., then you will work for it. But your love for the frat should be inspite of not becuase of your process. If you didn't luv Kappa before you entered, then you probably had no reason being on line, and no amount of ass whipping kan make you a better brother.
That's just my take. I will shut up now.
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