This thread is absolutely great! CT4, thanks for diggin' it up! I miss Shalom. We need to find her and bring her back! Wouldn't you all agree?! She's so prohetic!
Personally, I definitely want my husband to be the head of the household. This is not a problem for me because I grew up in a household where my father was the head. My father never disrespected my mother either. Actually, there were times where they operated equally as well. For example, when I wanted to go my friend's house, mom would say, "ask your dad." Then I would go to dad and he would say, "ask your mom." Lastly, submitting to your husband shouldn't be a problem when you've personally submitted yourself to Christ. My husband and I should have our own vertical relationship with Christ; if that is in place, the horizontal relationship with husband and wife should be fine and dandy. Imagine a triangle.