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When I was a sophomore at Ole Miss we had to release a PNM because she was not desireable in any way possible. She did not have her grades, she uncouth, obnoxious, rude, and very very unladylike in public. The chapter invited her back to second round and then after that she was released and not invited to Pref Round. Of course her sister who was an AOII was upset, but she understood since her sister was released by all 10 sororities.
At my chapter of AOII (Nu Beta chapter), we do not release a legacy unless she is undesirable, has horrible grades, and is uncouth, loud, rude, etc. Also, as Chapter Adviser I encourage members to really think before they decide to release a legacy. Also, as an adviser I can challenge any releases they chapter has during MS sessions.
In my view, being a legacy, I would think twice and I would just try to remember that you might be losing an alumna who is dedicated to the sorority financially and she might be a great, wonderful volunteer....so the consequences of losing her could be very harmful to the chapter.
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