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Originally posted by Love_Spell_6
....and if the woman is leading in certain areas...it should be a result of mutual agreement that that is the way it should be done....not because SHE decided it was the best way...
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Love_spell, I totatlly agree with the above. Additionally, I would insert the word "man" in place of "woman" and "HE" in place of "SHE" as well. My opinion is that the decision of who is leading on any particular issue should be a joint decision made by both parties. Some would say that it is only when the *woman* wants to make the final decision or lead that the man and woman should come to an agreement to allow her to do so. What I am saying is that for me, I would want us to come to that same agreement when the man is leading as well. For me, what good for the goose is also good for the gander.
I see that we have different points of view but it's really ok b/c it's not my goal to try to convince you. I am simply interested in good conversation.
SC