Ok, I know the house that you liked the most (and I know what one it was) did not extend a bid. That sucks.
HOWEVER, you got 3 bids. One you knew you would not feel at home with...you declined...that is all good. You have the upper hand here!
But you have 2 that you like and that really want you. I would weigh the pros and cons of the 2 groups that you like and take it and run with it. Who knows, maybe it happened for a reason. The grass is not always greener. You might pick one of these groups and later say "why was I trippin' over the group that didn't extend me a bid?"
Also, I am not going to try to guess what houses were which. If anyone does it, I would suggest it be done by PM. Because if you say something that can be construed "bad" about a GLO, it will come bite you in the butt later!
Good luck sweetie and we can't wait to hear where your home is.
Sorry if I sound spacey...I need caffeine!
Edited for spelling errors