[HotDamnImAPhiMu]

First, let me just say that I love Cheaters. But then I also love all those horrible dating shows -- Blind Date, Fifth Wheel, etc. I can't help it. Maybe I should seek therapy.

I'm dating this guy who keeps taking calls from his exgirlfriend. After arguing over it for like the 10th time finally I said, OK, I'm out of here -- I shouldn't have to compete for attention, and I don't understand why talking to her is more important than my feelings. (For the record, I've never set down an "ultimatum" like that before. There's more to the story, it'd just take awhile to write.)

Anyway, I've kind of been considering looking at his phone to see if he's been taking her calls again. But I feel so guilty doing it -- and what am I going to do if he is? Confront him with it? "Look, I was snooping in your phone and LOOK WHAT I FOUND!"