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Originally posted by aephi alum
I believe that two people who choose to become a family unit should be equal in all things and should share the responsibilities of "head of household" equally. Marriage is about partnership, not who's submitting to whom.
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Aephi Alum, this is pretty much my point of view as well. Marriage is about partnership, not submission.
I know that there will be those who say that not both parties can be equal all the time. This is exactly my point from my other thread: if you are more wise or learned or feel especially stronger about something than your partner than I would say that you are the dominant figure for *that* transaction or issue. Thus, no you are not *always* equal in every certain thing but, in my opinion, that equality would change based on the facts in place, not based on who happens to be the man.
SC