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Originally posted by Love_Spell_6
It actually bugs me when so-called independent women who may or may not make more $$ than there husbands try to run the household and make all the decisions.....gotta let a man be a man.... (but we all know who really running the show  )
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See LoveSpell, this is what I don't understand. What does appearing to "run the household" have to do with a man being a man? In my mind, being a man includes the qualities of humility and wisdom. If my man is wise and he recognizes that I should be running the show on matter x and he is humble enough to admit this to himself and me, then he is a man. To me, a man is not one who must be made to *feel* as if he is in charge if/when he really is not. It's my opinion, that a man is not one to put his ego into play like that.
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