I'm not even going to touch that other thread because one person might end up with her feelings hurt tonight! Anyway to relax I like to light candles play any of my Sade, Maxwell, or faith Evans cds. Sometimes I may simply lay down and watch some of my favorite movies such as Love Jones. All in all I love solitude period! I savor any time that I have to myself!
Relax, Relate, Release black people!!!