[CrimsonTide4]

If it were OPTIONAL, would you choose to do it?
Yes I definitely would seek premarital counseling. I know a lot of churches require it, but I want it just because anything that can help my marriage is a benefit. I plan to marry ONCE and it be til death do us part. I want a counselor to teach me how to better love the man that God has ordained to be my lifemate.


What are the PROS? Cons, if any?
The pros are knowing your mate better as well as yourself. I know myself but there might be areas that I do not totally know. I want to be able to talk to my mate and for him to talk to me. I think that counseling strengthens communication.


If you wanted it, but your mate didn't, then what? or vice verse, mate wants and you don't?
It is definitely a red flag and I would have to be prayerful about our relationship.


Spiritual or non spiritual form of counseling?
Definitely spiritual counseling. I want us to be equally yoked and have the tools to seek God as the Ultimate Counselor in our marriage.