my suggestions:
not gon cry
don't waste your time
not looking (all by mary j. blige)
love don't live here anymore
tyrone
who can i run to
when a woman's fed up-r.kelly
this woman's work-maxwell
silly love song - nicole
it's gonna rain - kelly price
ex-factor - l. boogie
faded pictures - case and joe
sh*t, d*mn, m*therf*cker - d'angelo (on that vengeance tip

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I hope life isn't a big joke, because I don't get it.
Before you criticize someone, you should walk a mile in their shoes. That way, when you criticize them, you're a mile away and you have their shoes.
Maybe in order to understand mankind, we have to look at the word itself: "Mankind". Basically, it's made up of two separate words - "mank" and "ind". What do these words mean ? It's a mystery, and that's why so is mankind